10 Signs that You’re in a Toxic Friendship (2)

5. You fear their reactions to things.

She isn’t your mom: you shouldn’t have to worry about her opinion or her reaction. Your friendship shouldn’t cause you anxiety.

4. Other people dread when she comes around.

It seems like other people might have already come to their senses. If she has very few female friends left, simply because the rest of them wised up and surrounded themselves with better people, it’s time you were smart too.

3. You’re constantly reaffirming your friendship.

Friendships are so important, but they aren’t marriages: you shouldn’t have to constantly reassure your friends that you love them. Her clinging to your side for attention and assurance isn’t because she doubts you—it’s because she wants you to feel bad for her.

2. You feel bad hanging out with other people.

Things should never be this complicated. You shouldn’t have to watch your back if you’re hanging out with other friends without her.

1. You consider not being her friend more often than not.

The fact that you’re reading this article is proof enough that you’re a part of an unhealthy friendship. Friendships should be fun—you should be encouraging each other and having fun and laughing over inside jokes. If it’s any more complicated than that, it isn’t worth your time.

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