14 Signs That He Is NOT The One

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Everyone has their first love, and for some it’s the person they spend the rest of their lives with. For others, it’s the person that you just can’t seem to shake, even though they’re absolutely terrible for you.

If you think your relationship is heading in a never ending downward spiral, here are some signs that you just might want to look out for.

14. You haven’t seen your friends in months (and not by choice).

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If your significant other ever tries to make you feel bad about going out on Friday night with your friends, he is definitely NOT the one. If he says things such as “I mean I guess you can go..”, “I’d rather stay in and have another Netflix night.”, or the always comical “Your friends don’t really like me so I don’t want to go.” you need to realize that you are not his babysitter and that you deserve a night to relax and have a drink with your friends.

13. He’s social media OBSESSED.

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This one is a deal breaker for me. If your significant other is constantly saying things like “You haven’t posted a picture of us in 4 days”, or “Your last 2 pictures were a selfie and a pic of your dog.. when are you going to post a picture of us” run for the goddamn hills. If his insta is only filled with pictures of the two of you that’s his choice (and honestly pathetic). That doesn’t mean that he can get mad at you for posting a picture with your guy best friend on his birthday.

If your significant other is always on your back for what you tweet or who you follow, he needs to be blocked. Who cares if you follow Justin Bieber or Maroon 5?! Last time I checked they are WAY out of your league (sorry but it’s true). If he says things like “Why didn’t you tweet me back?”, or “Why didn’t you respond to that tweet I tagged you in?” he needs to grow up. Last I knew, a tweet back or a “like” on a selfie does not define your relationship. Who cares if your profile pictures don’t have him in it? If people think you broke up because he’s not in your pictures then your relationship really isn’t strong enough.

12. He has managed to find reasons to hate all of your guy friends.

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I see this way too often in my friends relationships. Girl meets boy. Girl falls for boy. Boy convinces girl that all of her guy friends are scumbags that just “want” her.

If your boyfriend tries telling you that Mike (the boy you’ve known since you were in diapers and is like a big brother to you) isn’t a good friend and that you should hang out with him, tell your man to take a hike. I never knew that the secret 11th commandment was “Thou shall not have friends of the opposite gender when in a relationship”. If your man doesn’t trust you with guys you’ve known for years then is he really the one you want to be with for the rest of your life? You were single for years. If Tyler and Carl from gym class wanted to get with you, they would’ve made a move 3 years ago.

11. He can’t go more than 24 hours without seeing you.

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Okay now this one can be a touchy subject. Some girls like to be with their boyfriend 24/7 (don’t ask me why), but most girls need some time to spend with their family and friends. After all, distant does make the heart grow fonder. If you can’t go spend a weekend at your best friends camp without him saying “I miss you so much!”, “I really wish you didn’t go so we could have a snuggle night.”, or maybe even “I’m literally laying in bed doing nothing. Fake a stomach ache and come home.” how do you think he’ll be 10 years from now when you’re married and want to go see your relatives for a week without him?

10. You get in fights over anything & everything.

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If you and your significant other fight over what temperature it is outside, or who’s going to win this seasons Dancing With The Stars, you need to end it. I think the beautiful and talented Taylor Swift said it best in her song We Are Never Getting Back Together when she said “I remember when we broke up the first time”. If you have to keep your facebook relationship status on “It’s Complicated” because you’re sick of changing it back and forth between “Single” and “In A Relationship”, make it less complicated and end it, stat.

9. He changes himself/tries to change you.

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In a relationship, it is rare that the two people are 100% alike, I mean after all, no two people are the exact same. If you were ever in middle school, you probably remember the dreaded “20 Questions” that boy you liked asked you to play over text message (always starting with “what’s your favorite color?” and ending with “So who do you like?”) If it just so happens that every question you answer the boy replies with “Oh yeah me too!” or “Thats my favorite too!” chances are he’s lying.

If you think you and your new BF are the same person, give it 4 months. He’ll start showing his true colors slowly and you’ll see that you’re not as alike as you once thought.

8. He treats you like you’re one of the guys.

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Contrary to the other reasons of why your relationship is no good, this reason is simply because the guy DOESN’T show he cares about you enough. Instead of him uploading pic after pic of you and ditching his friends to spend the night on your couch binge watching Friends, this type of guy rarely even asks you to come over. You’re lucky if he even texts you more than once a day. Maybe he has a busy schedule, but even so, you shouldn’t feel like a burden when you text him to ask if he had a good day at work.

He might even call you “bro” or “dude” rather than “baby” or “BAE”. In your mind you two are made for each other, but to everyone around you, you’re like two best bros. Instead of winning “Class Couple” in your senior polls, you’ll win “Best Buds”

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