17 Things Guys Need To Understand When Shopping With Girls (5) April 15, 2016April 15, 2016 Brittany Goss 3. Shopping can help others in need. Sometimes spending money might actually help a cause. Yay! 2. It’s the ultimate “feel-good” activity. After eating, of course, shopping gives a high that can’t be beaten. 1. It’s not us, it’s you. If you can’t understand the joy of shopping, it’s just you.