22 Ways To Know You’re Not With A Total Jerk

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We’ve all be in a relationship, or dated that one guy who treated us like total crap. Honey, don’t do that to yourself anymore! You deserve better! Come on girlfriend! Set aside from the total jerks that you’ve encountered throughout your life so far, are the guys who are the biggest sweethearts ever. They have a big heart, know how to love, and treat a girl right! Look for these signs next time you’re dating (or see if your boyfriend now holds these traits)

21. He wants a future with you, and knows what he wants to do himself in the future. He knows all your favorite things and pays attention to you.
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20. He spoils you on occasion without being embarrassed about it.
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19. He’s your best friend and you can be your goofy self around him, and never feel uncomfortable.
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18. He isn’t judgmental and always supports your decisions.
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17. Gets along with your friends and family (might I add they all love him too)
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16. Plans dates, adventures, and days for you and both your groups of friends to do together.
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15. Wants to take pictures with you, for memories.
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14. Doesn’t talk about his ex-girlfriends or past hook-ups.
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13. Treats you well, and is super loving.
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12. He’s always up for doing something fun.
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11. Let’s you have your fun with your friends. He doesn’t get mad or super protective.
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10. Gives you space when you need it, and respects you when you want it. (it’s okay if you go a few hours without texting)
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9. He’s not clingy (clingy is actually okay sometimes) but he’s not blowing up your phone with 800 text messages when you’re at work asking where you are.
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8. He’s very polite and has great manners, and pushes you to do your best and try new things.
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7. Appreciates you and everything you do for him. He’s constantly thanking you for everything you do.
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6. Let’s you pay (girls like to spoil guys too)
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5. Treats you to dinner and other dates etc.. He doesn’t always make/let you pay (take turns, it saves money!)
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4. Shows you off, and isn’t afraid of what his friends will think (cause ultimately he’s whipped) And always has your back no matter what!
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3. #WCW and other inspiring posts of you or you two are super cute and thoughtful!
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2. He is always making sweet gestures and opening doors for you.
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1. He surprises you, us girls love surprises! (even if it’s a goofy prank, we’ll end up laughing about it)
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Tiny little 20 year old gal. I study Communication Information Design at Suny Polytechnic Institute and play lacrosse. I have an obsession with owls, wine, bubble baths, snowboarding, fall, pizza, and photography.

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