Written By: Ky Grabowski
You know the old saying, “Breaking up is hard to do.” There’s no official guide or cure tomoving on. Where can I file a complaint about this? We handle such situations in our own way. But, we often wonder how the other half might be dealing with it. Are they doing what we’re doing?
So, what is he, or she going through? The difference between men and women in regards to breakups is a bit surprising. There isn’t a dramatic difference in the way each sex handles a breakup. Based on recent interviews, the only variation seems to be in the starting stages.
Women revealed they tend to be more emotional during the first few weeks. Bring out theBen & Jerry’s ice cream please, a few tubs actually. Their actions subconsciously reflect the desire to hold on to the relationship. The never-ending “what ifs” and “where did it go wrong?” They go through the expressive platforms of sadness, confusion and frustration first. Isolating themselves from reminders of what they shared with their significant other, giving them time to process what happened. Women prefer to get through the messy emotional parts first rather than later. Hence, the romantic movies, The Notebook anyone?It’s not to torture themselves but rather to grieve the loss. They want to believe again in the hope that love gives.
