What Is A Soulmate?

Soul mate: A person who completely understands you and is perfectly suited to be in a loving relationship with you.

Many people believe that a soul mate is usually the person you’re destined to be with, the person you marry. I believe that as human beings we are capable of having multiple soul mates, and they’re not necessarily our future husband or wife. Soul mates are anyone who truly understands you and every part of you.

Sure a soul mate is someone who is perfectly suited for you, but that could be your best friend. What I’m saying is a soul mate isn’t always romantic. It’s someone who knows everything about you, from the foods you hate, to your deepest insecurities, and still loves you just the same. They understand you without you having to explain yourself. They’re the people you can spend countless hours with in silence and it’s not awkward. The people who accept you and laugh at your jokes even when they’re not funny. The ones who rarely get annoyed with you. They’re the people who you lose touch with, but when you reunite it’s like you never left. A soul mate is the person you connect with on another level. They come and go, and that’s ok. If you can think of a few people who fit this description than consider yourself lucky.

Look around you. Your soul mates are everywhere. Your home friends, your college friends, your current boyfriend/girlfriend, your ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends, maybe even the workers at Chipotle. You’re not supposed to have just one soul mate; you’re meant to have multiple soul mates. Sure all of these people don’t understand you in the same exact way, but that’s the point. They all understand you and who you are in different ways and they connect with you just the same.

Your soul mates are all around you so there’s no sense in searching for them. The idea that we only have one soul mate is what causes people to look in the wrong place for someone that has been right in front of them all along.

 

 

 

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