1. Instant comparison.
Your happiness has no bounds when you see such a perfect (only to you) human being in front of you. Although you have no clue what they think about you and if what YOU think even matters, you can’t help but compare them with your exes in everything they do.
2. Stalker instinct.
Nobody likes to be a stalker but it’s not a choice in this case. You spend most of your time looking at that person at school/office/college/street or stalk them on social media. You spend less time in thinking of ways to approach that person because looking at them makes your day anyway.
3. Helpless imagination.
You often get delusional about how it would be if you start dating that person. You don’t like to regret (because that’s exactly how it should be for all of us). So that’s the brief moment when you gauge all the courage to talk to them.
4. But losing all chances of saying ANYTHING.
No seriously, you suddenly go the dumb way when they walk up to you or vice versa. You’re unable to speak, forget asking them out. His/her aura is too intimidating for you to handle. And all that is left is – you blabbering and making a complete fool out of yourself.
5. It’s nauseating.
By the end of each day, your anxiety kills you. “Will I ever get to talk to this person? What if she starts dating and I regret not talking to her all my life? Am I in love? Aaaahhh… ” The part you’re forgetting here is – that’s a ‘crush’ you’re talking about.
6. Panicking about accidentally entering a ‘friend-zone’.
You keep yourself from doing things you don’t want to with this person but that doesn’t mean, you make them your friend. You try your best NOT to make that person your friend and if you do, a few months down the line, you wonder WITH them how it would’ve been if you guys had dated and THAT secretly pisses you off.
7. Ditching your friends.
It becomes a habit to drop everything, every plan, and running to your crush if he/she asks you to hang out at the coffee shop. At the same time, you have butterflies in your stomach that makes you throw up.
8. Over-confidence.
No matter how much you’ve stalked this person, if he/she messages you or shows any kind of interest in you, you act really confident, a little too confident, which may or may not be good for your future plans.
9. Constant restlessness.
“Does she like me, does she not?”
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