It’s time to be honest with ourselves. Us girls always tend to have that friend that is dating a guy that we’re not feeling so hot about. Here are 10 stages when us girls know that we hate our friend’s boyfriend.
10. The bad feeling- Whether you’ve had it since you met him or he did something wrong to your friend, it all starts when you get that pit in your stomach or weird feeling that makes you know you’re not going to like him.
9. Trying to warn her- It’s the most awkward thing ever. There’s no right way to go about it, you just have to do it and know that you have her best interest at heart.
8. Listening to her complain about things he does is like that annoying ache that won’t go away. You tried to tell her, she didn’t listen, and now she expects you to listen to her problems with him. You don’t want to hear it. It doesn’t matter if it’s stupid fights or you’re listening to her tell you about how he did something screwed up to her, you’re tired of her mouth moving and words coming out.
7. Outright letting him know you don’t like him- you feel like you have never hated someone so much in your entire life. You ignore him, you give him dirty looks every time you see him, and you cannot stand to be around him.
6. Fighting with your friend over it- You’ve tried to tell her so many times, and you just can’t take it anymore. You’re tired of her complaining, her crying, and her constant back and forth “I hate him but I love him” battle. You’ve had enough, and you’re not afraid to let her know.
5. The make up- You and your friend decide to put the fighting behind you. You decide to accept the fact that she isn’t listening to you, but you know that eventually she’ll come crying back to you when her relationship is in trouble again.
3. Things get better -You never thought you would see the day when you could actually say that things have been improving with your friend and her boyfriend. At this point, you don’t hate him as much as you used to. But you still hate him. A lot.
2. He does something that makes you want to punch him- It was bound to happen. Though you’ve kept your thoughts to yourself, it was only a matter of time before he did something stupid. Again.
1. You’re there for her when her heart is broken- You knew this time would come. Though you’re sad for her, you couldn’t be happier because she’s finally done with the jerk who’s been making her miserable.
By: Kristen Norton
