5. It was his cousin’s bachelor’s party and they were celebrating with strippers. He never had intentions of cheating on his wife, but he found himself alone in a bathroom when one of the dancers offered to give him a blowjob. “I should have said ‘no’ but it is hard to turn it down when it is offered.” He lives in constant fear his wife will somehow find out.
4. He realized he was a sex addict. He is now currently in a 12-step program to get some help. He feels guilty about destroying his marriage and giving his wife an STI.
3. It had been five months since the couple had sex and in a moment of weakness, he went on a website to look for a quick hookup. He ended up meeting anther married woman and having sex with her a couple of times. The thrill of “something new” was better than the sex, and he felt horrible afterwards.
2. He felt neglected by his wife after they had their first baby. He constantly felt like he was being ignored and pushed away, so he fell for a woman on his ultimate Frisbee team. He continues to have a sexual relationship with his friend while married to his wife. He doesn’t know what his long-term plan is. “It isn’t as much fun as people might think being a ‘cheater’ would be.”
1. The worst of them all. This man believed that anything that happens while on business trips should not be counted against him. Since he provides a nice life for his family, he thinks he deserves it simply because he can.
