4. We don’t like to be smothered and we don’t like clingy. Sometimes we’ll just want to go out and have a Girls Day or do errands alone. It’s nice to have someone to do things with, but that doesn’t mean we’ll want to do everything with you all the time. We love affection and we love that you show us how much you care about us, but sometimes it can be taken overboard and just leave us feeling smothered.
3. We’re fierce and unapologetic about it. As independent women we know who we are and what we want and we aren’t afraid to go after it. When we set goals for ourselves we’ll do whatever it takes to achieve them, even if that means making a few sacrifices along the way. Sometimes we may forget that we’re not just thinking about ourselves anymore, so you might have to remind us every once in a while that you’re here for us and plan on staying by our side through everything we do.
2. We’ll try to do things on our own before asking for help. We can be really stubborn when we want to and it’ll probably get on your nerves. No matter what it is we’re doing we’ll probably try and do it ourselves multiple times before we ever ask you for help – if we ever ask for help. Just be patient with us because eventually we’ll remember that part of being in a relationship is being able to ask each other for help.
1. We know who we are and we won’t change for anyone. No matter how much we love you or want to be with you, we won’t change who we are to please you. If you can’t accept us for who we are then there probably won’t be an us. The best way for this relationship to last is to work together and build each other up, not focus on how we can change one another.
