3. The confidence that comes from getting hit on.
It is almost impossible to get hit on if the only places you go are to work and to an all-women workout class. In other words, I never get hit on anymore. And I’m not saying that I want to be hit on. I’m in a relationship. I don’t need to be hit on. But, I’ve been in that relationship for 7 years. My boyfriend has gotten so used to me that he is into me no matter what I look like (and sometimes it can be bad). It was nice getting hit on by randoms back in the day, even if I acted like it was SO uncalled for and rude and ignored whoever was saying something nice to me. Inside, it boosted my ego. Now, I am the only person who hits on myself. Isn’t that sad?
