On the other hand, men shared that they avoid and distance themselves from their breakup partner. They find hands-on ways to deal with the end of a relationship. Exercising, working, and creating. They might spend hours at the gym, or push themselves into their hobbies and careers. The emotional parts that follow are pushed aside for as long as possible in an attempt to move on without the baggage. Though, they revealed this is a defensive mechanism to ignore the pain from the breakup. Which catches up, at one point or another. Yes, men mourn this loss too. A lot of their actions continue to keep them distracted. This is because typically men don’t let themselves feel emotionally affected until later. So, don’t let that whole “tough guy” act fool you.
Underneath all the differences, men and women both focus on being active and seeking support from others. They work to better themselves and their life. Rediscovering who they are as individuals. At this point they’ve begun to accept what has happened and are actively pushing forward.
While we might be on opposite sides of the wall, ironically, we’re still in the same room.It doesn’t mean he doesn’t care like she does, or that she can’t move on as easily as he seems to have. Men and women just handle breakups in their own way.
Featured image via screengrab from The Break-Up.
