See, I’ve learned throughout college that there are people who you don’t need in your life. If they are not helping you grow as a person or you do not enjoy time with them, then you just need to cut them off. If they make you feel bad about yourself or constantly hurt you, then you need to be done with them.
In the same way, if this rift is causing such conflict and your friends can’t seem to understand that you don’t want to be involved, then maybe it’s time to cut both of them out of your life. Or even just one of them.
It’s also possible that you may stay friends with both of them, but then you’ll have to tell them when the other is going to be at a party or something, ugh. It will drive you nuts, but you will still have them in your life and that’s great.
